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How Can I Ask Someone To Go For A Test, I Fill I Might Have Infected Her?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Federalway

I was diagnosed a month ago I ddn't know my status and am in meds bt I might have infected someone, am really sorry for this bt I want her to know, but don't know how I can do this. For me am trying to get used to new me bt that one person I think I might have infected is giving me sleepless days and nights.

April 14
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A myHIVteam Member

Another way to let them know, if you're too nervous to tell them, have the health department tell them. The health department has to keep that information protected.

April 14
A myHIVteam Member

Let them know what’s going on. Might be one of the hardest conversations you ever have had, but after that its all over and you can rest easy.

April 14
A myHIVteam Member

Discussing HIV testing can be sensitive, but it's important for both your health and your partner's. Here are some steps to approach the conversation with care and respect:

1. **Choose the Right Moment**: Find a private and comfortable setting where you can talk without interruptions
2. **Be Honest and Direct**: Start by Show Full Answer

Discussing HIV testing can be sensitive, but it's important for both your health and your partner's. Here are some steps to approach the conversation with care and respect:

1. **Choose the Right Moment**: Find a private and comfortable setting where you can talk without interruptions.
2. **Be Honest and Direct**: Start by expressing your concern for both of your health. You might say something like, "I value our relationship and our health, and I think it's important for us to talk about something."
3. **Share Your Status**: If you haven't already, disclose your HIV status. Be prepared with information about HIV and its transmission to address any questions or concerns they might have.
4. **Express Your Concerns**: Gently explain why you believe it's important for them to get tested. You could say, "I recently found out that I am HIV positive, and I'm concerned about your health as well."
5. **Offer Support**: Let them know you're there for them, regardless of the outcome. Offer to accompany them to the testing center if they'd like the support.
6. **Provide Information**: Share details about where and how to get tested. Emphasize that early diagnosis can lead to better health outcomes.

Remember, it's normal to feel anxious about this conversation, but prioritizing health and honesty can strengthen trust in your relationship.

April 14
A myHIVteam Member

Hi @A myHIVteam Member im not sure if u undetectable right now but dont panic take it easy there still chances she might be negative. So i suggest you first talk to her about HIV like ask when did she last get tested, her views and perspective about HIV study her reactions Let them know your status regardless...and may be request you go get tested as acouple.

April 15

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