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Tackling HIV Stigma, What Works?

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New York, NY
November 2, 2022
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I know for me, the "stigma" associated with HIV today is different than it was 30yrs ago. I can remember not being able to use utensils,(fork, spoon, knife) i was given plasticware, at dinners/holidays,etc. because of the fear/ ignorance. I remember being turned away by dentists due to ignorance. There was much more direct prejudice back then. It was very difficult. Just saying it now gives me great sadness inside of what I felt like. I am grateful for people being educated about HIV & not being fearful. There are pockets in society today that still maintain a great fear of HIV & those living with it. Back then I also realized that I may have a self imposed stigma based on my experience & that took some time & acceptance of self to overcome but it is a thing & I think people need to be aware of that. What I am saying is, accepting diagnosis & accepting oneself can be helpful in the midst of possible stigmas still present today.
My best to those facing these situations & to keep focus on self & being ok with who you are.🙏🏻♥️

November 4, 2022
A myHIVteam Member

I believe most stigma is a reaction to fear of the unknown. Information is out there, but you can’t make people open their minds an read. We can put ourselves out there to be seen. It is natural to attempt to hide our HIV status. For some, I realize coming out as positive is not a reasonable option. Discrimination by employers and others is real. For those of us who can, I believe we have a bit of a responsibility to put ourselves out there, not under a spotlight, just in the mix, to show others that we are normal people, and not a danger to them. When it is possible for others to see that they already work with, socialize with, or simple know people with HIV, it is more accepted and fears subside. Most do not want to be educated on the subject, so they need to be taught without realizing they are learning. It’s a slow process, with much work needed, but look how far we have come.

November 3, 2022
A myHIVteam Member

For me just education

November 2, 2022
A myHIVteam Member

Hmmm i learn over the yrs to live my life ...let God do his thing....i dont tell everyone even family....keep my mind occupy like nothing is happening

November 3, 2022

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