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How Do You Tell Your Partner You Just Found Out That You Are HIV Positive After Having Sex With Them Without A Condom

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Cape Town, ZA
February 2
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A myHIVteam Member

Offensively. How do you know you didn't get it from him?

February 3
A myHIVteam Member

There’s not an easy way. Find a time when no one else is around. Have information available for your partner about testing. That should be their first step. It’s difficult, but I believe that the sooner you get it over, the better. Best wishes to you.

February 2
A myHIVteam Member

Disclosing your HIV status to a partner can be challenging, but it's important for their health and your relationship. Here are some steps to consider:

1. Choose a Safe Setting: Find a comfortable and private place to talk
2. Be Honest and Direct: Explain your recent diagnosis clearly.
3. Provide Information: Share what Show Full Answer

Disclosing your HIV status to a partner can be challenging, but it's important for their health and your relationship. Here are some steps to consider:

1. Choose a Safe Setting: Find a comfortable and private place to talk.
2. Be Honest and Direct: Explain your recent diagnosis clearly.
3. Provide Information: Share what you know about HIV, including treatment options and prevention methods like PrEP.
4. Offer Support: Be ready to answer questions and provide resources for further information.
5. Seek Help: If you're uncomfortable, consider involving a healthcare professional or social worker.

Remember, honesty and transparency are key to empowering your partner to make informed decisions.

July 31
A myHIVteam Member

To be blunt with your partner. If they love you they will accept you and offer support.

March 27
A myHIVteam Member

Thank you

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