Sorry to hear you had to go through that, no one need ,ore stress in their lives than what we need, I had a couple of guys trying to be nice with me and make friends for a few moths till they though I was comfortable enough that they could as me for money but i didn't fall for it and they stop talking to me. You made it with no scares which is great, now just bock them and move on.

I would say fine and never write him again

In the U.K. we have a number of words for people like that, none of which I can type though...too rude!

I get cheap thrills messing with people like that. Pick their brain see what the reason is. I guess as some have said my cat-like nature. Cat and mouse can be fun when nothing else to do. Just always be aware so you are not made the mouse.

I hear you here as I have gotten catfished 3 times in the last month and all 3 times I knew it was happening so I just played along and then when they asked for money I started laughing at them and then tell them that I have known all along that they weren't who they said they were. I must have a bullseye on my forehead that says sucker.) For some reason they seem to think that over 50 and gay means dumb and gullible. I do like to play along just to see how far they will take it. The last guy played that game for almost a month and then got pissed off when I wouldn't send him money and broke character and started saying things that went completely against how he had described himself and where he was. I was laughing so hard I almost pee'd myself.