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Confrontation

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭

Well I confronted my boyfriend about being bisexual and he said I was attacking his man hood he knows that I’ve seen the pictures naked transsexual in his phone and him sitting on the couch with his d… out so many messages from men saying your man won’t let you out tonight his google search big booty feminine gay man and some of you are going to say I should not look in his phone I felt something was going on checked and saw way more than I wanted to so messages from men and pictures. At a loss… read more

August 1
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A myHIVteam Member

Run!

August 1
A myHIVteam Member

You got to go as soon as possible

August 1
A myHIVteam Member

There's enough evidence to think he's hooking up with someone. I might have left the gender out on the first pass. Either way, you shouldn't expect a confession. Nor should you wait for one. You should go with your gut and move accordingly. There's to much going on out there to be playing games with him.

August 1 (edited)
A myHIVteam Member

Oh honey, look at the d# @A myHIVteam Member fone! At least you did have some conscience and reflection about doing it but 'm surprised he also didn't hide the fone from you cuz that's a red flag for cheating too. Also that he got defensive and gaslit you. An honest loving man (a real man) wouldn't react that way. I'm also surprised you haven't thrown his s@#t on the lawn yet by this time. It won't get better, cheaters always gonna cheat, liars always gonna lie. Go get yourself a better man or just be with you, like mother always told me, " better to be alone than in bad company" xo, hoping the best for you!

August 1 (edited)
A myHIVteam Member

What a horrible story. I don’t blame you for going through his phone, I would’ve done the same thing. The question is what are you going to do with the information now that you have it. I agree with most people that say run. Sending you a big hug. Stay strong and brave

August 18

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