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This Is For Single People Who Have 0 Support And Know They Need A Change In Environment To Start Healing.ts?

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Bethlehem, PA

External help is exhausted. I've been on 99 percent of mental health meds, hospitalized,, ECT. You name it I probably had it. I know what I need and probably would help anyone else too. If instead the help didn't consist of thousands of dollars in medication but use that money for a new environment for me. Positive people positive help would change everything. Same thing with a dog it's basic shit. Take a person out of a negative toxic environment and into a positive one and I guarantee you in a… read more

July 19, 2023
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A myHIVteam Member

@A myHIVteam Member
Why are you waiting for someone or something to bail you out of the toxicity you speak of? If you know what you need, then you need to make it happen for yourself and no one else. I have a cousin with the same situation who is always waiting for something better to come along to remove him from his toxic relationship with his family and "so-called" friends. It will not happen unless you make the change for yourself. Medication is to help you cope and is mostly a band-aid and never addresses the root of it all. As adults, we put ourselves into our situations and/or allow it to become the norm. Then, later on in life we start to blame others for our situation. Get control of your life, remove yourself from the situation you speak of, and do something for yourself. Don't wait for anyone, it's on you. Aloha!
PS- I forgot to ask, what was the question here?

July 19, 2023 (edited)
A myHIVteam Member

I didnt have much support when I lived with my dads family. Maybe you need a lifestyle change? Ever consider getting a tiny house and exploring the country? You were right btw about toxic situations. Also, you do have support. Us, the group, we're here for eachother. Its been a blessing for me. Hope it is for you. Hugs!

Thanks for reading, go in Peace.

July 19, 2023

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