My status was thrown in my face years ago so I'm not so upset when it's brought up. Today I use it as a teachable moment.

I don't have a problem with it it's only one part of me. In fact most people are curious about what it's like to live with HIV.

It's a Virus

Have no problem with it after 29 years if they don't know it they don't know me

It’s on I need to know basis. My dentist does not know nor does he need to. Every person should be treated with the same safety protocols. Additionally, undetectable means non infectible. So it’s just none of their damn business.