Ill be honest, for a while i was scared. Someone would disclose status to me and id feel scared about being "with" said person. I feel i have learned a lot and would "if hiv negative" go out with someone poz. Knowing what i know. I dont blame neg guys for not wanting to date. Being that i felt the same once. Just needed some education and reassurance.

Yes because it depends on the person.

Depends, unless we already had a pre existing relationship. U=U requires you to take your meds. Logically, Ima need to see you take them once or twice. That's the level of intimacy it would requires. If we are on that level, then it's up for conversation. It's defiantly not something I would do for a hook-up.

I have recently dated a man who is not positive. He took a break when I first disclosed my status and did some homework on his own. He came back to me with lots of questions and we worked through it. After 20 years of people breaking up with me as soon as they learn my status, it feels like a dream come true,

Knowing what I know now , I would .