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Should I Disclose Undetectable Status

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Cardiff, UK

I have a question, I live in Wales part of the UK. Now I have always disclosed my status ,but I am now undetectable and want to know if and when should I tell a potential suitor

March 20, 2023
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A myHIVteam Member

Hopefully before you have sex if you plan to keep them. Having HIV is one thing. A lie by omission is an entirely different issue.

March 26, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

Another thing people are not mentioning is, is there are still HIV laws in your jurisdiction, you must follow them first and foremost. You dont want to risk jailtime.

May 29, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

Lie about your name and tell about your status. If you got rejected, its fine, they dont know your real identity. But, If you got accepted. You can now tell about your real name. They could still forgive you and they would understand why you try to conceal your name.

January 15
A myHIVteam Member

I always do ,thank you for your response

May 30, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

Always tell the truth leave it up to them

May 30, 2023

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