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Do You Have Trouble Finding Someone To Date Because Of HIV And/or Your Age? How Do You Handle It?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Albuquerque, NM

I live in a under-educated part of the country, where if you are honest you are typically shunned. As long as they don't know, all seems to be well. Ignorance is indeed bliss.

I find that at 56 I have become completely comfortable with the man I am and with what I need from a mate. It seems that this clarity coupled with my status creates a very difficult set of circumstances which makes meeting someone both compatible and mutually attracted even harder.

Anyone else experience similar… read more

January 29, 2018
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A myHIVteam Member

@A myHIVteam Member (re your post)
I'm straight and female but believe ( as far as acceptance goes) it's not any easier for either "sides of the coin" .

February 25, 2018
A myHIVteam Member

Finding a mature man who’s ready to settle down and do life together; commit and enjoy the pre golden years seems hard to find. At 60, sometimes it gets lonesome, but my peace is amazing. I won’t settle and I’m still very hopeful we will cross paths. If not, I’m making life grand and adventures.

February 21
A myHIVteam Member

Try to find a way to love yourself enough and never give up!

September 24, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

yes it isn't so much the sex I miss as it is the companionship and finishing each others sentences of someone you have an intimate relationship with.

July 22, 2021
A myHIVteam Member

At 36, undetectable for 8 years, and soon to be divorced, I've come to discover that a majority of people seem to think a relationship with someone else is supposed to "complete" them. I've been there and done that and the truth to the matter is that no one can make you complete except for yourself. A partner in crime shouldn't be a complement to your life but help supplement your life and vice versa. Being held responsible entirely for the others' happiness is a weight no one can hold; we are all human, make mistakes, cause each other grievances. It's what we do after that counts and defines your character, even if you are the only one aware of your actions after the fact.

April 2, 2019

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