Are you currently in an abusive relationship? This can be verbal, sexual, physical, mental or any other way. Have you ever been in an abusive relationship and got out? If you were in one and got out, what advice do you have for those that are still in such a toxic relationship?
Not technically, I have been in a emotionally abusive one, but i think physical abuse is the worst form and I've luckily not been in one of those
It’s hard but as long as you take your meds everything will be ok. You can’t live in fear all the time. That will put a wedge between you and your partner. To be safe have them to use prep. Set… read more
With HIV being a chronic illness, lots of people who are single have a difficult time connecting with others due to this virus.
How do you feel about dating someone who does not have the HIV virus?
Yes I would tell them it's up too them whether or not where I live there's 7,000 people so ...no go here maybe Chicago it's a bigger city
I am often asked and am single mainly because I do enjoy my own company and that may sound selfish but as much as I would like the company of someone special, I think at my age that probably is long gone. I enjoy my time friends and some colleagues and the occasional fling but I come with more baggage than an airline and wonder how other single folks feel about being single?
Cynthia I'm 66 I have been married in relationships but I still would like a Partner it is never too late. But on this site I don't think we will get lucky 🤔 Gays more then straight
Good Luck 😇🤔
Just wanted to get a consensus how long term survivors are doing in general. Health, getting enough support, relations with family and friends, encountering any stigmas. I've lived with HIV half my life, diagnosed with HIV in 1987. I am having issues with all of the above. It is hard finding a place to fit in.
Anyone else experiencing this?
Major support from family health not so good but due to family history of vascular disease
I fall in love with someone after long time of being alone.He beg me to move in with him but i refused since i heard a feeling of what is coming.After several meeting i decided i should tell him that am hiv p. He was kind of shocked but then said we can still be together and be happy without passing it to each other since i gave him some advice and even the Dr. did.For me it wasn't easy and i even said several times that i can't date with someone who is not Hiv P but as we say love is blind.
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Oh hell NO you should not put up with such arrogance!
My late husband was the person who took it upon himself to be the one to break the news to me of " baby you have Aids " .
Thank goodness he… read more
Long-term HIV infection may lead to certain complications and illnesses such as cancer, heart disease, neurological disorders and so forth. As a person with long-term HIV ...how have you handled this both mentally and medically?
@A myHIVteam Member If I ever feel sorry that I can't do what I once could, I take a lesson from my 87yr old partner... Make the most of life now, because, unfortunately, it doesn't get any easier… read more
The camaraderie and relationship building created here on this platform has influenced me into asking this question.
There are some team members, from long ago, that never drop in to visit or check in, based on my observations.
If the person dies, how would the persons team know they had passed? What would you do when your time arrives? Should we partner up here and have one or the other person share the sad news? Thoughts? Suggestions? Answers?
Well my dad did.
I was talking to my therapist about HIV disclosure to potential sex partners and he told me about a organization that defends PLWH against prosecution
They have some good suggestions to help prove you disclosed your HIV status. But they admit it NO GUARANTEE even if you do everything correctly and tell your sex partners about your status that you won’t still be prosecuted
Here are some of the suggestions they gave on their websites:
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It is awkward, but having proof that… read more
Stay undetectable, also know the state laws
I've noticed that some + people here were very hung up on dating and they seem to have a preference to negative people. Is that common? Or is + a plus when it comes to dating because you have commonalities? This is just a question..
I'm in the same boat 🚢 different ocean though!! After my bitter divorce in 2014 after 17 years 😅 I decided to stay away from negative people and things that would hurt me belive it or not I haven't… read more