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Would You Go To An HIV Get Together?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Geneva, IL

If possible, would you venture to a gathering of like-minded HIV comrades whether it be those here online or in a support group in your local area? it could be a barbecue, a picnic or someone's backyard? Would you attend?

A myHIVteam Member

I can set something up in Mequon Wisconsin (at the north border of Milwaukee county....) You can message me here, or my handle here at gee mail gets me too.

August 12 (edited)

Would You Date An HIV Neg Person?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Geneva, IL

With HIV being a chronic illness, lots of people who are single have a difficult time connecting with others due to this virus.
How do you feel about dating someone who does not have the HIV virus?

A myHIVteam Member

As long as the other person knows who they are dating.

My baby and I were together for 21 years until he died of diabetes.

He was negative. He use to tell me if he caught it from me, he caught it… read more

July 5 (edited)

Can Anyone Recommend An H I V Website Meant For Dating And Meeting?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Geneva, IL

There have been current and new members who are very interested in meeting each other. Unfortunately, this is a support group virtual platform. Having said that, there have been couples who have met on here and gone on to get married. But there are existing platforms designed to meet and greet other HIV people too.... can you please share with us, which websites they are?

A myHIVteam Member

hi mrembo unaona kama tutapata huku, naona wengi ni ma gay

July 30

HIV Vocabulary

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Edmore, MI

HIV Vocab
You may have heard your doctor use some words, when talking about HIV, that you’re not familiar with. Let’s talk about some of these key terms so you can start to better understand HIV
Virus – A virus is an organism that can infect your body’s cells and use them to make more copies of itself (“replicate”). HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency Virus. It’s a virus that infects your immune system
Immune system – Your immune system is made up of cells, tissues, and organs inside your… read more

A myHIVteam Member

@A myHIVteam Member as long as your CD4 is high and your viral load is low (preferably Undetecable) then you’re doing well.

September 13, 2020 (edited)

Do You Have Trouble Finding Someone To Date Because Of HIV And/or Your Age? How Do You Handle It?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Albuquerque, NM

I live in a under-educated part of the country, where if you are honest you are typically shunned. As long as they don't know, all seems to be well. Ignorance is indeed bliss.

I find that at 56 I have become completely comfortable with the man I am and with what I need from a mate. It seems that this clarity coupled with my status creates a very difficult set of circumstances which makes meeting someone both compatible and mutually attracted even harder.

Anyone else experience similar… read more

A myHIVteam Member

Yes, but that ok I guess

March 27

REAL Man!

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Sierra Vista, AZ

I always wanted to be one of those guys who could drop the engine of a car, or tear apart a motorcycle with confidence. That's not me. But, this morning I am rotating the wheels on my electric skates, and it's pretty much the same thing. 🤠. Even have grease under my fingernails to prove it!

A myHIVteam Member

Well... FWIW... I've always said that a real man takes it up the ass haha

October 12, 2023

How Is Your Dental Care?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Edmore, MI

If you, or someone you know, is living with HIV/AIDS, the American Dental Association recommends that dental health care be part of all HIV/AIDS treatment plans. That’s because people living with HIV/AIDS are more susceptible to infections including dental infections, which can affect their overall health
Your mouth may be the first part of your body to be affected when infected with HIV. Because infection with HIV will weaken your immune system, this means you will be susceptible to… read more

A myHIVteam Member

I got to go 2/19 but since my surgery I might have cancel not sure yet blessings all 😇

January 26

I’m Posting This On Behalf Of @A myHIVteam Member Gabriel

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Bakersfield, CA

Post this pls
Good morning and happy thursday January eighteenth friends and family
I want to apologize to all those members that were taken by surprise by my departure yesterday. Please contact Happy days. Better known as Ernie as he does have my email address for those who would like to write to me ...I. also will be writing some articles for POZ.COM going forward.
I will be having my surgery in April for my spine and depending on
Some things ,..i will determine if I return and… read more

A myHIVteam Member

Back at Ya brother...stay happy....😁

January 23

Would You Be Willing To Meet Some Of Your Friends Here Online?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Geneva, IL

With Summer coming up and some of the restrictions easing in the United States, some of us in the past have expressed interest in a get-together. Would you be willing to travel to an agreed upon destination for a get together,... with some of your my HIV team members?

A myHIVteam Member

I would love to travel with the group. I live in Baltimore.

July 9

Are You A Long-term Survivor?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Geneva, IL

Being a long-term Survivor has its many setbacks. One of them being loneliness and feeling left out. With the new generation of Atriplas, many of us long-term survivors experience feeling forgotten.

A myHIVteam Member

Yes I am There’s the feeling of loneliness and the feeling of survivors guilt

December 2, 2023
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